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Carolin Moldenhauer

The First Why: Rediscovering the Love That Connects Us to Horses

The "why" of wanting to be with horses, especially in their most soft, intelligent, and expressive states, is rooted in a deep love and connection to these incredible beings. There’s something about their presence—their strength tempered with gentleness, their sensitivity, and their quiet intelligence—that calls to us. Horses have a unique way of touching our hearts and souls, inviting us into a relationship that is built on trust, understanding, and mutual respect.


This love often begins with the simple awe we feel in their presence—their grace, their beauty, their power—and evolves into something much deeper as we learn to communicate and bond with them. Our first "why"—the reason we were drawn to horses in the first place—often stems from this love. Whether it’s the freedom they represent, the connection to nature, or the pure joy of being with them, it is this love that forms the foundation of everything we do with them.


As we progress on our journey with horses, it’s easy to get caught up in the goals, techniques, and achievements. But we must never forget our first "why"—that pure love that brought us to them. This initial pull wasn’t about control, perfection, or outcomes; it was about the simple desire to be with them, to feel their presence, and to share a bond that transcends words.

By staying connected to that original love, we honor the true essence of our relationship with horses. It keeps our hearts open and reminds us that the journey is not just about training or mastery but about mutual growth, respect, and the joy of simply being together. When we remember this, we allow for the kind of soft, intelligent communication that brings out the best in both horse and human, nurturing a relationship built on love, trust, and a shared sense of peace.


In the end, it is this love that makes the journey with horses so meaningful, transforming it from a series of tasks into a lifelong partnership that fulfills both our hearts and theirs.

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